Is there this one woman you feel truly attracted to? Maybe you’re even a little in love with her?
Now you are naturally asking yourself the question:
“Does she like me too? Or is she just nice and sees me as a good friend? And how do I know?”
Maybe you generally find it difficult to assess whether women are interested in you? Do you find interpreting a woman’s signals comparable to solving a Rubik’s Cube?
Don’t worry, with my tips, that’s all over now!
Because in this article I will explain to you exactly the signs that will help you find out if she likes you.
How do I know if she likes me?
Oh man! I still remember asking myself the same questions back then:
“Does she really like me? Is she attracted to me or is she even in love ? Or does she just see me as a good friend?”
Or even worse:
“Is she just talking to me out of politeness?”
I racked my brains over this for days (okay, I admit it—sometimes it was even weeks). This feeling of uncertainty really wore me down.
I was afraid of love. Afraid of rejection. Afraid that I’d move too quickly and she’d shut me down if I tried to kiss her. Worried about embarrassing myself.
I simply didn’t know how to recognize a woman’s signals, let alone interpret them.
Fortunately, that time is over! Today I know exactly what to look out for.
And I’m sharing this knowledge with you today if you want to find a steady girlfriend. I’ll tell you the surest signs that your chosen one is interested in you – beyond the friend zone !
Does she like me? 8 WhatsApp signals
First, let’s talk about our all-time favorite form of communication: writing on WhatsApp!
But we start where the eggplant emoji and grinning poop leave off, namely between the lines.
Because it’s not just about WHAT she writes. But one thing at a time…
We men know by now that conversations with women on WhatsApp and other social media platforms can quickly lead to misunderstandings. BUT there are a few indicators that not everyone knows about.
Here are my tips for sure signs that she likes you:
1. She writes to you first
Pay attention to who texts whom first. Let some time pass before you start typing again to coax them out of their shell.
Unless you’re in the middle of a conversation – I don’t want to encourage you to be rude here, of course.
If she takes the initiative and writes to you first, that’s definitely a good sign that she wants to get to know you better!
2. She responds quickly
You just pressed “send” and your phone is ringing again because she has already replied?
Bro, I’m giving you a metaphorical pat on the back.
Her quick response means she misses you, maybe even loves you , and wants to hear from you again as soon as possible. Stay tuned!
3. Lots of emojis and GIFs
If women decorate their messages to you with lots and lots of colorful Smarties… erm… smileys, then that’s a good sign!
Their happy emojis signal to you that they have a good feeling about you – similar to the laughter on your real date.
4. She writes you long messages
You can also tell whether she likes you by the length of her WhatsApp messages.
If she only answers briefly and succinctly and doesn’t ask any questions , that’s a bad signal.
However, if you receive real “novels” from her via WhatsApp, then you are on the right path to making her your girlfriend!
If she wasn’t interested in you at all, she wouldn’t take the time to write you detailed texts. Of course, right?
5. She sends photos from everyday life
Do you occasionally receive pictures from her ? Especially when they’re photos that let you share in her day, that’s great!
It suggests that she can imagine a relationship with you.
Especially when a woman thinks of you in everyday situations and shares it with you via WhatsApp, that’s a really good sign. Whether it’s a poster that reminds her of you or the liverwurst sandwich for dinner 😀
6. She sends you sexy pictures
Whoop whooooop! Ummm… do I really need to elaborate? Hopefully, you know what it means when she sends you provocative or sexy photos:
She wants to show you her body to excite you, to please you, to “lure” you.
Would a woman who doesn’t like you and has no interest in you do that? Nope.
So what are you waiting for? What kind of red flashing signal do you need for an invitation? Arrange a date with her quickly!
7. She asks you personal questions
If your conversations on WhatsApp go into depth and she asks you one question after another, that is one of the surest signs that she likes you.
Why else would women bother? If she wasn’t interested in you, she could refrain from doing it, right?
Lots of questions and conversations that aren’t just superficial are a great indication that you’ve piqued her interest as a potential partner for a relationship.
So stay tuned!
8. She writes teasingly and humorously
Another signal that the woman can send you on WhatsApp: She makes jokes, teases you and maybe even writes you a bit cheeky texts.
It is not for nothing that they say: “What loves each other…”
So don’t feel offended if she teases you! You can tell she’s joking by her emojis (see above).
So respond to her flirting!
10 signs that she likes you on a date
Of course, your communication doesn’t just take place on WhatsApp… At least I really hope so!
Please don’t disappoint me now 😀
It is at least as important to learn to interpret the signals she gives you on the date.
But often we men sit here and ask ourselves desperately:
“Does she like me, or what’s going on here?”
Believe me, once you figure out how to figure this out based on her subtle body language and words, unimagined dating possibilities open up!
You will then see when she subliminally sends you an “invitation”.
This allows you to take the next step (touching, kissing, etc.) and make her your girlfriend without risking rejection.
Do you know the movie “What Women Want” with Mel Gibson and Helen Hunt?
You can imagine it like this: You suddenly understand what is going on and are no longer trapped in the jungle of uncertainty.
And (unlike in the film) without the annoying thoughts about her grandmother’s dachshund’s asthma, her outfit for her best friend’s baby shower, or the shopping list she’s made up in her head for her vegan and sugar-free chia pudding 😀
Here are the 10 most important signs that she likes you:
1. It allows physical closeness
Calm down, brownie – we’re not talking about fumbling (yet) 🙂
It’s about everyday closeness and distance.
If a woman allows physical contact, it is a very good sign that she likes you or is even in love.
But be careful: Don’t go all in! Take it slow, bit by bit.
It’s probably clear that you’re NOT supposed to touch her bottom to see how she reacts, right?
Imagine the lady is a hot coffee.
“Huh?” you ask yourself. “What kind of stupid comparison is that?” Wait! Let me explain what I mean:
To check HOW hot the coffee is, approach the cup very slowly, one sip at a time. You want to enjoy it, but you definitely don’t want to burn yourself.
If you do everything right, you’ll end up touching him with your lips. Can you follow me?
These are clear signs that she likes you and you are on the right track:
- She turns to you.
- It allows closeness.
- She doesn’t turn her head away.
- She maintains eye contact.
- She might even come closer to you on her own.
Here’s a little insider tip from me:
Don’t touch the woman roughly, but try to make only light contact at first.
That means brushing her shoulder as you pass, briefly touching her hand (for example, when you’re both reaching for bread in a restaurant), or standing close enough to her in the elevator that your arms are JUST touching.
Watch how she reacts!
2. Your “lip service”
The question “Does she like me?” can also be answered by looking at her lips. Her mouth tells you so much, IF you know what to look for.
Most ladies are obsessed with lip care. And for good reason—women aren’t stupid.
They know exactly how seductive their lips can be to us men.
Does she show up to your date wearing bright red lipstick? Or does she keep reapplying her lip balm or lip gloss?
Maybe she keeps moistening her lips with her tongue or bites them lightly with her teeth?
All of these are very good signs that she might like you or is already in love with you.
Because she is trying to seduce you – consciously or unconsciously – with her lips and is perhaps already thinking about your first kiss!
3. She becomes a “little girl”
“What does that mean?” you might ask. “I want a woman, not a little girl!”
Okay! I completely agree with you! But let me explain what this point means:
If the lady suddenly falls into a kind of “little girl pattern” on the date, that can be a pretty sure sign that she likes you!
Does she giggle, seem embarrassed, maybe even blush, or laugh at your stupidest jokes?
Bingo!
This signal shows that she’s taken the bait and is into you. You can take the next steps to win her over for love and a relationship.
Why does she play the little girl?
The psychology behind it is quite simple: She (unconsciously) wants to appear small and vulnerable in order to awaken your male protective instinct.
4. She imitates you
No, I don’t mean that she’s mimicking you or even making fun of you. In that case, you’d hopefully leave the “battlefield” on your own!
We are talking about so-called “mirroring”.
Ever heard of mirror neurons? No? No problem, I’ll explain.
Regardless of whether we are men or women: When we humans feel attracted to someone, our brain decides (to put it simply) that we want to connect with that person.
We see what the other person is doing and our brain gives the command to adapt our own body language to that of the other person.
Our body doesn’t always follow suit, but it does very often.
But I’m not talking about you getting your shirt dirty with burger sauce and your wife doing the same 😀
It’s about much more subtle signals:
You lean back, and she does too. You prop yourself up on your elbow, and she follows suit. You cross your legs, and shortly after, she’s sitting with her legs crossed, too.
These seemingly small gestures can be big signs that she likes you! Pay attention!
5. What your foot position and legs tell you
You’re on a date, and she hasn’t run away yet. Great! You did everything right…
Joking aside!
But her feet and legs actually reveal a lot! For example, if you’re standing or sitting and her feet are pointing toward you, her focus is on you!
Even if she crosses her legs when she stands, you should not ignore this.
Women usually do this unconsciously when they feel good.
On the one hand, this posture appears very feminine to men and emphasizes their curves. It also signals that she feels safe with you and has no reason to flee.
If she were to try that in this starting position and suddenly sprint off with her legs crossed, you could scrape her right off the ground 😀
6. She plays with her hair (or objects)
If you’re wondering, “Does she like me?” on a date, then pay attention to her hair!
If she’s constantly running her hands through her hair, fiddling with the ends of her hair, or even twisting it around her fingers, you can pretty much relax with this signal. Because, bro, she’s into you!
And she doesn’t even do it consciously!
Such actions in women are 99% subconscious. But you can, of course, use your knowledge to win her over.
The same goes for objects. Is she playing with the table decorations? Is she nervously moving her ring around on her finger or fiddling with the napkin?
Very good!
She is excited – and that is probably because there is erotic tension between you.
7. “Those who love each other tease each other”
We all know the saying about love, right?
And this is not an outdated myth.
Grandma was right back then – if the woman is a bit cheeky, teases you or teases you in a charming way, that’s a sign that she likes you.
She wants to test you, maybe elicit a compliment or two, or simply laugh with you. All signs that you’re on the right track.
So keep it up!
8. She asks you a lot of questions
Remember the WhatsApp story (see above)? She asks you a lot of personal questions, and your conversation isn’t just superficial but goes into detail?
This is also a VERY good sign on a date because she wants to get to know you better.
If she wasn’t interested in you, she could save herself the trouble.
But because she likes you, she naturally wants to know more about you to find out if you two are compatible and if a relationship could work.
She asks you questions about your future plans and relationships?
JACKPOT! A great signal!
Because women often think ten steps ahead of us men. But ONLY if they can imagine more.
So don’t run away if she asks you, for example, if you want to have children – that does NOT mean that she wants to get pregnant by you right away at the table in a restaurant 😀
She’s just checking to see if you share the same values and ideas. And that’s a pretty sure sign that she likes you!
9. Look into my eyes, little one
Of course, a woman’s gaze also says a lot about what she thinks of you. That “twinkle” in her eyes really exists; you just have to recognize it.
Does she maintain eye contact? Does she occasionally look shyly at the floor? Are her pupils dilated?
Yeah!
Such a “certain look” gives you a clear sign that she likes you!
But PLEASE leave sayings like “Your father must be a thief…” (I don’t even want to finish that saying) at home.
It would be just as effective to pour the flower water into her pretty eyes!
10. She dressed up
Sure, some women wear makeup when they take out the trash or go to the bakery. But often, on a date, it’s a sign that she wants to please you.
She’s wearing a sexy dress to show off her physical charms? Her lips are sparkling with lip gloss? She’s wearing her prettiest earrings?
Bingo, the question “Does she like me?” should be answered with a resounding YES thanks to this visual signal…
…why else would she dress up like that for you?
Keep at it and compliment her on her looks a few times (but please don’t overdo it, less is often more!).
Then you have a good chance of finding out what’s hidden under that fancy dress.
Body language or your words – what is more important?
Do you know the following saying?
“The tongue can lie, but the body never can”
That’s right – because the woman can tell you a lot.
Would you like some examples?
She says how nice she thinks you are and how much she likes you – but it’s just politeness between friends.
Or vice versa:
She rejects you, but her smile reveals that it’s just a joke, a playful challenge to flirt with you.
Of course, as I said, it’s good if you have an interesting conversation, if she asks you questions or even compliments you.
Much more important, however, is the cues their body sends you. You can trust the body language signals listed above because people use them unconsciously and therefore don’t use them to manipulate others.
That’s why they are usually more reliable signs that she likes you than her (often empty) words.
Which brings me to the next point:
Be attentive so you don’t miss anything
It took me some time to recognize and interpret a woman’s signals.
But you have one decisive advantage over me before: this article!
What would I have given back then if someone had given me such help. A kind of “man’s handbook” for unraveling the question “Does she like me?”
My goodness – tips like these would have saved me a few sleepless nights!
Look at the list from time to time and try to keep the points in mind and look out for them when you’re on a date or communicating via WhatsApp.
EVERY WOMAN, without even opening her mouth, unconsciously tells you a lot about herself through her body language and the way she behaves towards you.
Now you know what to look out for and all you have to do is win the girl over.
Are you still finding it difficult to focus on her signs because you’re distracted by her beautiful eyes (or her cleavage)?
Then I have a little exercise for you to sharpen your senses:
Next time you’re at a bar, take a look around. Observe couples and see if you recognize the signals I’ve shared with you.
This way you can perfectly prepare for your next date and “practice” a little.
Signals are not set in stone
Nevertheless, caution is advised for us men:
Of course, all these signs aren’t clear. Even psychologists and behavioral scientists admit that the subtle signals women send us can sometimes be misleading when it comes to love. It’s often difficult to tell the difference between flirting and pure friendliness .
For example, just because she giggles and seems embarrassed on a date doesn’t guarantee that she likes you or is in love.
Maybe that’s just her character and she behaves that way towards her friends, her mother or the garbage man.
If you’re really unlucky, she’ll only be staring at you so intensely because you have some ketchup left in your beard from that juicy burger 😀 But let’s not assume the worst.
The fact is that the sum of the signs is decisive.
The more of the points mentioned you can identify in the woman, the more certain it is that she likes you.
“But what if I don’t recognize any signals?” you might be asking yourself.
No panic!
First, as I said, it takes a while to learn to interpret the signs. Second, you should become independent of them in the long run.
What does that mean? Quite simply:
Does she like you? Take the next step!
It is important that you internalize this point: Don’t wait solely for signals to take the next step!
Yes, yes, I know what you’re thinking: “Why are you telling me so much about the signs if they’re not that important?”
You are important!
But that’s not all! Not recognizing the signals is no excuse for us men to shy away from the next step!
Do you know what most women find attractive?
Willingness to take risks. Courage is a sign of masculinity! So go for it!
If you have a good feeling, go for it! That doesn’t mean you should ignore the signs. They can be very, very helpful when trying to figure out if she likes you.
However, I would like to encourage you to make a cautious move one way or another and then see how your counterpart reacts to this approach.
Be bold without being pushy! Maybe you’ve missed some signals. Or maybe you’re dealing with a particularly shy woman who’s simply difficult to read because she’s so reserved.
So now you have the most important tool at your disposal. Use it to your advantage and snag the female for a passionate relationship, Tiger!
